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Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Honesty, Marriage, and Threeways

Clearly the men in my life think I have given up sleep just for their satisfaction.  Clark called me at 6:20am this morning because I hadn’t answered the texts he had sent me in the middle of the night. FYI, my wake up time is 7am. I can sleep through my text notification, but not the actual ringing of the phone.  We then proceeded to have a 4 ½ hour text conversation that was mostly sexual in nature, but with some discussion of where he wants this to go. He told me today that I’m marriage material. I almost wrecked my car (yes, I know I shouldn’t text and drive).  I’m actually in the process of working on my portion of a three way blog about marriage and monogamy.  Speaking of three ways, he also asked me for a three way with another girl (sometime in the future...not the gf) and told me he would have 3 ways with me with other men if I wanted in return. When I expressed my concern over having to touch her in places that I don't want to, he said I wouldn't have to do it if I didn't want to, that she would be our bitch and we would make her do what we wanted. Here's the shocking point, he is very capable of locating a pretty girl that would in fact do just that for us. The man has charm and manipulation powers that rival mine!

Oddly enough, Clark is the only one of the current three men I’m with that I’ve been totally honest with regarding my other affairs. Gavin has asked, but not pushed so I’ve avoided answering. I think that alone should be his answer. Owen hasn’t asked in a long time and last time he did, I lied. I know I shouldn’t, but I do because I know that’s what he has to hear. Now that there has been such a lapse in our time together, I think if he asked again I would cop to one of the two.
-Jules
 

3 comments:

  1. I text and drive, obviously, and I have almost wrecked my car on more than once occassion when a boy has thrown something out there like that.

    You better watch out for Clark. He's worming his way in there!

    Oh and Flyboy is the only guy I've been completely open and honest with about my personal life. Interesting that he's the one I feel most comfortable with. Perhaps a lesson to be learned with that?

    Miranda

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  2. ...he also asked me for a three way with another girl (sometime in the future...not the gf) and told me he would have 3 ways with me with other men if I wanted in return.

    So out of curiosity, was this actually a factor in your decision making process? I guess I always assumed threesomes (at least, MMF threesomes) were kind of a "been there, done that" thing for you.

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  3. Of course I've been there and done that but OMG it's so much fun! I like that he's willing to give back to me as well, but no not a deciding factor.
    -Jules

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