Dating After 40: Do Any of Us Really Know What We Are Doing?

So anyone who read my answers to yesterday's TMI questions should be able to tell that I'm a bit of a sourpuss lately. Yes, my hormones are playing a role but so are all the stupid boys (yes, boys not men) in my life. Frankly, I'm getting really tired of spending so much time thinking, writing, dreaming about them and even fucking them. So....I've decided to take on another little experiment of sorts and Miranda has agreed to join me. Starting today, September 15th, we will not initiate contact with any members of our man teams or with any prospective members of our man teams. Under no circumstance will we contact these boys unless we are contacted first and, even then, only if a response is 'required'. Below are a couple of examples of how these rules work, in case any of our female followers are interested in joining the experiment. The following types of texts are not to be responded to under any circumstances: "Hey baby. Just thinking about you. H...

So today I spent what felt like a fruitless day searching for a new place to live. Realizing that I'm going to be paying Duckie $500 a month for three years to be rid of him, though very worth it, hurts the budget! As soon as the papers are signed, sealed, and delivered I have some very choice words for Duckie. As Sawyer and I discussed that today he said Duckie's man card was going to be revoked and I told him Duckie never had one in the first place! After looking at many sad, say apartments and houses today I stumbled on an awesome complex! I can even afford the three bedroom version so Ladybug and Leo don't kill each other sharing a room. It's super nice and as soon as I walked in it just felt like "home." Plus, Duckie won't be able to afford to live there so I know we won't end up living in the same freaking complex. A potential outcome he mentioned last night and seem quite excited about how it would "ease" the transition for the...