Breaking the Sawyer Seal

So my date with motorcycle man was great! We actually ended up with two dates on one day. First he took me to lunch then we met after work for drinks and a ride. Let me give you some details on him. He’s 44, works for UPS, divorced for several years, and has custody of his 12 year old daughter. Very country but very funny and smart. Conservative (exact opposite of me lol) and he works out every day so he’s got a hot body. Huge guns! Big arms are one of my favorite things on a guy, they are very sexy. The conversation was nice and easy and he’s really a comfortable person to be around. Player had some game too. Since he’s country, he’s all about using darlin’ and sweetheart which is very cute. He also was slick with the reaching out for little “accidental” touches making sure our legs touched under the table. Haha!

The bike ride was amazing! First time I’ve ever been on one and I’m definitely addicted already. Plus it’s sexy as hell to snuggle up to a good looking guy and hold one while you’re zipping around. Makes you feel totally bad ass to. We rode out to a local park and down through it. Then we had the perfect romantic moment. We took a little break and were sitting on this split rail fence just talking. It was all peaceful and quite. The sun was just starting to set. He moved in for the kiss, we kissed, and honestly, the kissing wasn’t great. What a disappointment! But I held out hope and when we kissed again a few minutes later, it was much better. Maybe it was just first time nerves. The second set of kisses definitely were hotter and gave me that special little tingle hahahaha!

Afterwards, gentleman that he is, he walked me back to my car and gave me a sweet goodnight kiss and asked me out again. I said absolutely and we’re totally going to go out again. He’s definitely dating material and maybe more lol!

Last night was Lawyer Boy date and it was the dealio! I had a blast! I was so nervous beforehand for some reason but I chilled out once I finally was on the date. I have to admit though, I broke every safety rule. Very bad I know. I met him at his house because he lives right near the restaurant and bars we were going to so we were planning to walk. Shouldn’t have went inside first but I did. Then we changed our plans and decided to go to a restaurant that was farther away, shouldn’t have gotten in his car, but I did. And later, well, there were other things I shouldn’t have done but I did! LOL. I’ll share those details in a minute.

We hung out at his house for a few minutes before we went off. My initial reaction is that he wasn’t as tall as promised but he was very close to it, plus I did have on high heels so I have to give him some credit. Also, initially, I thought he was cute but he didn’t look exactly like his picture. But that might be because he has some facial hair going on now and he didn’t in the picture. We just chilled out a little bit and I tried to freaking relax. He made us a couple drinks (which I supervised the mixing of because I thought I’m already breaking the rules and in his house I need to make sure he doesn’t slip me a roofie lol). He was very precise with the mixture amounts, too funny. It was interesting to be in his house because he has full custody of his 7 year old daughter and there are photos everywhere of her. Very cute!

After a drink, we headed out to a great Mexican restaurant and ate and had some margaritas. Then we headed to a couple of cool bars and had some more drinks. He’s a fun guy to hang out with. Talks a lot, which is good, and talks to everyone around him. He’s that life of the party kind of guy. Following my girl’s suggestion at work, I wore a sexy little shirt that fell off one shoulder and made sure to wear a cute bra for the strap to show. As the night went on, he couldn’t stop touching that shoulder haha! Loved it! We ended up the night at a restaurant/bar near his house and hung out there for a couple hours just talking and laughing. While we were there he finally moved in for a quick kiss. It was very well timed. Apparently at that point I was more than a little drunk and engaged in my first experience with drunken texting. I sent Jules some very funny texts about Lawyer boy and how he’s a surfer (which he is). Let me tell you what, Jules has waxed poetic about hot surfer bodies before and she is spot on. Blazing hot body. Big shoulders, pecs, arms, narrow waist, good legs. Yummy! We ended up closing out that bar and did a little kissing in the parking lot before heading back to his place.

Once we got there I had every intention of just hanging out for a bit to sober up and then head home. But he got to me yall. Interestingly and a little weirdly, he’s into European pop/dance music which I actually like but I mean he’s a guy come on! So he put some music and we were in his kitchen mixing up another drink. And it just all clicked. We engaged in a hot little session involving him, me, and a very friendly counter top. All PG fun I assure you but it was hot. (If you haven’t read my very first blog, you should no I have a thing for making out in a kitchen hahaha.) At some point his shirt came off and that’s when I realized fully what a great body he has. Two words for you - 6 pack. Enough said. I knew I was in trouble at that point. While we kissed and played around for a while longer I knew I had to make a decision. I could just fool around and call it a night or I could break my Sawyer seal and follow Lawyer down the hall to his bedroom.

Even in my inebriated state, I knew this was sort of a big decision to make. Since the start of everything with Sawyer, I haven’t slept with anyone else, even Duckie. And until he pushed me to date (which thank the lord he did), I didn’t even kiss anyone else. Now I can’t seem to keep my lips to myself! But I’d stayed “faithful” to him sexually and in large part emotionally. This was a game changer. Honestly, if he knew I was sleeping with other guys I think he’d end it with me. Makin this decision felt like I was putting the nail in the coffin of our relationship which I’ve already told you I think it winding down.

Did I ever tell you that Lawyer boy and Sawyer have the same first name in real life? That was a positive I decided if I was going to sleep with him, I wouldn’t have to worry about calling out the wrong name. LOL! So I made the decision to break my final rule and sleep with him on the first date. He was just too hot and his body was too persuasive. And I’m so glad I did. It was hoooooottttttt. Here’s where you should stop reading if you don’t like TMI but hell, you read this blog so I’d doubting you’re going to stop reading anyway. He so knew how to take care of every part of me. We went to his bedroom and he just teased the hell out of me for the longest time. Then we were both suddenly naked and well, frankly, he was pretty, every single long part of him! Ha! To use surfing terms, his long board was quite delightful. We had sex in every way possible and I even let him do things I haven’t let Sawyer do…..Hmmmmm, wonder what that means. After about an hour, we finally went to bed close to 5. He even wanted to do the post-sex cuddle/fall asleep snuggled up which I usually don’t like but it was very nice with him. I had to get up at 8 to come get the kids which was painful and I was still a little drunk but a mom’s gotta do what a mom’s gotta do. I realized I left my favorite freaking earrings at his house though! Before I left, I did wake him up to say goodbye and he did say he wants to see me again soon. I’m definitely looking forward to it and not just because the sex was great. I think I might “like” like him for real. There’s definitely potential there.

The big lesson I learned here was that where all this time I though Sawyer was the bomb in bed, he’s not. I mean he’s still good but Lawyer showed me there is much that could be improved on. Kind of knocked Sawyer down a few pegs in my mind. Next up is a night of dancing with the girls and I’ve suggested that High School crush make it a point to be downtown when I am. We’ll see what if anything happens there. What an interesting 48 hours I’ve had….

Miranda

PS – Texas and I have been talking a lot too this week. He’s like every girls romantic fantasy but sadly he’s moving back to Texas in about a month. We are going to meet up, next weekend hopefully. He’s pretty dreamy and I can’t wait to see him in person. Maybe I’ll have me a little out of town weekend boyfriend thing haha. I’ve never been to Texas before… Just saying!

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  1. Mmmm, definitely stay with Lawyer- I come from Texas, it really doesn't live up to the hype! But apparently surfers do! LOL

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