What’s with all the ass play these days? Just something I’ve been ruminating on while I should be working.
Back in my hey-day of slutting around (though I’m fast making up ground now) the ass was never on the menu. In fact, I can’t remember even one guy making a play for the ass until one freaky night with Duckie very early on in our relationship (his one and only chance he ever got BTW).
So far, every guy I’ve slept with during my rebirth into singlehood has made an ass request or just slipped in a little ass play (ew- gross unintended pun).
Sawyer has always asked about it though I’ve never let him go there. The crazy night where he fucked with me emotionally I almost did though I recanted at the last moment. Motorcycle Man asked about it but frankly, I was scared to let his big old snake in my mouth much less my ass. Lawyer Boy has been a little all over the place ass wise (ha – the puns in this post are killing me). Our first crazy out of control night he was everywhere and I didn’t mind a single bit. The second time was too sweet and (excuse me as I throw up a little in my mouth) if I used the phrase “making love” that’s just what it was. This weekend, the ass got a little attention but not the whole enchilada (omg seriously I need to stop with the puns – remember we ate Mexican food together). Actually now that I think about it, the Giant didn’t make any back door moves but I bet if he got the shot he would.
So what’s up with that? I know I was out of commission for a lot of years but is this a new phenomena or has the ass been the way to go for a while? Is it because all these guys are grown men and back in the day college boys were afraid to ask for it?
I remember an episode of Sex and the City where weirdly enough, Miranda asked the same question. So tell me, what’s up with all the assing around?
PS – For the record, I haven’t reciprocated any of these ass-tactics. I’m clearly a receiver; not a giver.