TMI - Sex and Love

This week's TMI questions are courtesy of the lovely Hedone at http://pleasure-principle-hedone.blogspot.com/.%20%20%20

1. What is your favorite part of sex?

All of it!  It's too hard to narrow down to just one part though I love the moment right before you hit your orgasam when you're body is tingling all over. - Miranda

 You guys are killing me with these 'favorite' questions. I enjoy the very beginning, before the actual sex starts, when you have that feeling like you just can't wait to get your hands on your partner - I guess you could call it the 'sexual tension' lol. -Gwyn
Yes, I'm going with an all of it. I love the moment of penetration for the first time when he puts it in to the part where I'm cumming over and over to when he finally lets go. - Jules

2. Have you asked your significant other or spouse what their biggest sexual fantasy is? Did you like it or are you not interested? What is it?

Coach has a fantasy that involves us getting it on up against the back of a baseball dugout. Go figure LOL.  I'd totally be down for it but I'm not sure how you pull that off unless you go in the middle of the night. - Miranda

I don't have a significant other or spouse right now but in the past, yes, I've asked about their fantasies. One wanted to do it in a car in the middle of the day (I obliged), one wanted to do it in the back of his dad's van (I obliged), one wanted me to keep a specific pair of stilettos on during sex (I obliged)....that's all I can remember right now. Work is making me crazy today so my brain is sort of foggy.  -Gwyn
I have not asked Gavin although since he calls me his porn star, I think I'm doing it right. I guess I should ask him though. I know he likes the whole 3sum thing. Owen's fantasy is definitely to see me with another woman and I'm trying to make that happen for him. I've posted on CL and I've mentioned the whole swinger's party to him but since he's married with kids, it's virtually impossible for him to get out on a Saturday night. - Jules

3. Do you enjoy phone sex?

I do.  It was definitely an acquired taste but it's very fun! - Miranda

I have never had phone sex, technically. Sexy talking, sure, but not the whole deed. I think I prefer sexting because in Gwyn's world, the less personal the better. And, honestly, I don't think I could stop myself from laughing during phone sex. -Gwyn
I'm not a huge fan of it, but I know men like it. I love sexting. I love the build up of tension and then to have Owen say all the things I've said to him out loud when I see him is smoking hot. - Jules

4. Have you ever had a sexy nickname? How did you get it? What is it?

A sexy nickname?   I don't think so.  But if I had to name myself I'd go with Hot Twat.  HAHAHA! - Miranda

In high school, the guys had a sexy nickname for me that I do not care to share - it had to do with my ass and my overall phsyique that is all I will say. Since then, I don't think I have. I have plenty of nicknames since my real name is so unique but none of them are 'sexy'. -Gwyn
The aforementioned porn star thing with Gavin is the only one I know about. - Jules

5. What's your favorite color lingerie?

I'm not big on the lingerie though I tend to buy black or emerald green for some reason. - Miranda

Again with the favorites. I've been told I look good in purple on more than one occasion but I have lingerie in all colors - black, purple, red, pink, orange, etc. I love lingerie it makes you feel so much sexier. -Gwyn
I'm not a big fan, but I love the look of all black. - Jules

6. Have you ever had sex with "just a friend" and gone back to "just being" friends?

If you read this blog in the last year you know Miranda's not good at the friends with benefits situation. Though I guess SoCo and I were friends and we're back to friends now. It still weirds me out that he is dating Coach's sister. - Miranda

Yep. -Gwyn
Actually yes a few times in High School and college I did this and once with a co-worker before we moved to HI, but it hasn't come up in years. - Jules

7. If in a romantic relationship or marriage, what is the best thing about it right now?

 I love just hanging out with a significant other.  When you're so content to just be together that it doesn't matter if you're running errands or laying on the couch watching TV. - Miranda

Hahahaha Miranda. That statement makes me realize how opposite we are lol, once the sex is done I'm ready to get on with my day solo. Having a guy laying in my bed trying to cuddle when I have a shit to do drives me freaking insane. And don't get me started on running errands with a man, unless it involves getting work done on my car, loading heavy items or him buying me clothes I would much rather go alone or with a girlfriend. I've tried just 'laying around' with a guy and I don't last more than 15 minutes or so before I start thinking of everything else I could be doing (I don't mind napping with a guy because Lord knows I love to sleep, but just laying around awake - no thank you). -Gwyn
OMG this question made me throw up in my mouth. The best part of my relationship with Gavin is that he comes over all the time, but then he goes home. - Jules

8.  How did your last relationship end?

If you don't count the breakup a couple weeks ago with Coach, I'm not sure which relationship qualifies as a "relationship."  All the boys who got more than a few dates tended to either fade out or we just stopped talking. -  Miranda
All of my relationships end one way - I break up with him. I've had some pseudo-relationships end differently though - those mainly end when the guy disappears into thin air. -Gwyn
I told Clark I didn't want to see him anymore after he wouldn't quit punishing me for the swinger's party thing. It got old and I realized what an ass he is. - Jules