Today’s TMI Tuesday consist of Formspring questions pulled from around the Web. The NY Times called Formspring “An E-vite to Insults and Crude Queries.” I admit, I pulled the tame, less crude questions.
1. What is your favorite type of weather?
Um, hot...I live in Hawaii. It's always summer. - Jules Hot. I hate being cold. And when it's cold, my hands stay bone achingly cold all the time. Not the best for playtime with anyone. I seriously used to do the Mr. Miagi magic had rubbing treatment to warm them up before I'd touch Coach. - Miranda
Hawaii weather of course, 81-83 pretty much year round (last night it got down to a chilly 75 and we talked about needing sweatshirts!) with some nice trade winds. Summers in NC are a little too hot for me but I did enjoy the fall weather there, just not the getting dark at 5pm part of fall. -Gwyn
2. How do you sustain the motivation and energy needed to write erotica regularly?
I have a huge basis upon which to write. I only write what I live. - Jules I just write what happens and try to make myself seem unbearably amusing.Plus I'm woman enough to admit it's an ego trip when people take the time to leave a comment. - Miranda
I wouldn't say that I write erotica regularly. As you can tell, I am by far the most prudish of the group and my posts rarely contain much erotic detail. I'm lucky to get in one post a week these days...blame my boyfriend and the beaches for that! -Gwyn
3. Do you like roleplay? What is your favorite scenario?
No, not into roleplay so much. It's never been my thing. - Jules Roleplay makes me laugh. I've done bits and pieces but very quickly it breaks down into just dirty talk. Though it makes me laugh in a good way to do stuff out in public and pretend I don't know the person I'm with. - Miranda
I'm with Miranda on this one. The only time roleplay enters the equation for me is as part of a joke. McDreamy is scarily good at impressions/impersonations and every time he goes 'into character' I get hysterical and tell him to stop. I just can't take him seriously and neither can he. -Gwyn
4. Have you ever been hurt so badly in a past relationship, that it has affected you for the rest of your life?
Well, we will let my therapist make that final call starting December 1st, but really I don't think so. I don't tend to let people get to me in that way. - Jules I like to pretend I'm tough but I'm always affected in one way or another. But that's life right? You live you learn. IDK that there's one relationship that's affected me more than another. FJB really messed with my head trying to figure out why I wasn't enough for him until I realized "he just wasn't that into me." And of course my situation with Coach taught me a lot more that I ever expected. - Miranda
Yes, my relationship with The Ex has and will affect me for the rest of my life. I don't think it is because of being 'hurt' by it necessarily but more because I had to admit to myself that I wasted 6 years of my life (and this was my early to mid-twenties, the best years of my young life!) on someone who wasn't the one for me. Admitting that fact made me do a lot of self reflection and lots of questioning about why I put myself through that, what is was about him that attracted me so much, how I got so caught up in the situation, etc. The process of leaving him also built my confidence up tremendously so that now I know I can make it through anything. -Gwyn
5. What message would you want to put in a fortune cookie?
"The crazy will soon disappear from your life and be replaced by total awesomeness. " - Jules Here are the winning numbers for the lottery. Go buy a ticket tonight. - Miranda For all your hard work and sacrifice you will be rewarded. -Gwyn
6. How big is your dick?
It depends on who you are talking to, but technically I don't have one. I've got HUGE balls though...lol. - Jules Like Jules, I think I can have some pretty big balls. If I had a penis I'd like to think it'd be huge! - Miranda Um, Jules? Didn't you pick these questions? Is there something you need to tell us? -Gwyn
Bonus: I would like to know, do you have Formspring on your blog? Why or why not?
We did, but it bored me so I didn't follow up on it. - Jules We did but it wasn't used a lot so we took it off. And really, if you have a question, why not post a comment or just email us? - Miranda We did but it was boring. Wait, does that mean we are boring and no one has anything to ask us? -Gwyn
Jules and Miranda met in middle school and stayed friends through high school. Early in 2010, they both realized that their decade long marriages were splitting up at the same time and they reconnected and started the blog. Gwyn and Miranda met through work and bonded over many personal crises and a shared sick sense of humor. After confessing about the blog, Gwyn was in for the ride to share her own special experiences with boys and she and Jules became friends. Josie has been friends with Jules and Miranda basically forever and is the newest member of our blog. We are all In different places, literally and figuratively, but we always seem to rise to the occasion. And so our story goes... Email us at email@example.com.