Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me. Let’s talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be…”
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are on a subject near and dear to our hearts (and some other body parts, too). It’s all about SEX!…Yes, again.
1. What is your sexual personality? a. The Controller – initiating sex, twisting your lover into positions you want, and driving scene play by play b. Sex Slave – You love to be used and at the mercy of your lover. You don’t initiate but follow and do as you are told. You love to be used. c. Daredevil – Sexual adventure and sexual thrills are what you are all about. You get off on the risk factor. d. Subdued – Sex is a necessary part of the relationship so you are available when needed. Wow, I'm actually A-C rolled into one. I like being in control at times, but mostly I'm very submissive in bed and do as I'm told. I do like to have sex in all kinds of crazy places and ways though and the thrill factor totally plays into it. You can't label Jules...it's impossible. - Jules I'm probably more B though there is an bit of A and C in me. Really just depends on my mood. Right now I'm more of a "nil" as in I'm not getting any. And it's starting to make me crazy. I need a boyfriend stat! - Miranda I guess I am subdued, none of the others seem like a good fit. -Gwyn
2. How many times have you sneaked away from party guests to have sex in another part of the party venue. Where did you sneak to? Were you ever caught?For example, at a wedding reception you sneaked to have sex in the coat room. At a party, you sneaked to have sex in a bathroom or closet. I've definitely done it...how many times, I haven't a clue. Of course I've also been to parties where sex was the total game plan. - Jules A few times in high school. In college if I left the party it was to go have sex at the person's house. A couple times Coach and I got a little down and dirty but never went the full distance at a party. - Miranda In high school I would sneak off to make out, but I was still innocent and pure so there was no sex. I remember sneaking into laundry rooms, bathrooms and bedrooms. One time I was really drunk (and apparently determined) and broke the lock on a bedroom door sneaking in to make out with some random guy (who used the line "I make beautiful babies" hahaha). When some guy at the party tried to blame me for it I completely denied it and he proceeded to try and start a fist fight with me. Yes, a fist fight. I had to get a couple of my guy friends to back me up and eventually he let it go. Zima is a hell of a drug. -Gwyn
3. Your sex partner that you are mad crazy for has requested you do one of the following, which one would you grant consent to do: a. Bondage/light restraint with your hands, legs tied while having sex b. A sexual spanking that leaves light marks c. Record the two of you having sex d. Have sex in a mirrored room where you can see yourselves having sex from every angle All of the above, although I wish he would have picked "D" before I started grad school and gained back 15lbs...but whatever, he clearly thinks I'm super hot so I'm down for any of it. - Jules I'd go for any but c. I really don't think I'd enjoy watching myself have sex. I think I'd be way too self conscious and I'm even starting to be more reluctant about sending sexy pictures not to mention video. Must be old age haha - Miranda A and B. Maybe C if I was drunk enough. No thank you to the mirrors. -Gwyn
4. Do you act out your sexual fantasies (select one)? Why? a. I act out all of my fantasies. b. I act out many of my fantasies. c. I act out some of my fantasies. d. I act out very few of my fantasies. e. I don’t act out any of my fantasies. f. I don’t have any fantasies. Honestly, I don't have a lot of fantasies but yes, I've acted out a few so "C". ;) - Jules Since I'm not having sex all the time I have lots of fantasies. I've acted out a good many of them in the past but there are always new ones to act out in the future! I guess like Jules I'm a "c" - Miranda Sadly, I don't really have any fantasies. -Gwyn
5. How important is sex in your life (select one)? a. I could hardly survive without it. b. It is very important. c. It is somewhat important. d. I could live without it. e. If it were up to me, sex wouldn’t even exist! Do you read this blog?? "A"...duh. - Jules Definitely B. When I was married I'd have said e haha. - Miranda B. I may not be kinky or really wild but even I think sex is key to a good relationship. -Gwyn
Bonus: Finish the following phrase. Sex is ______________ . Fucking awesome! - Jules In short supply these days. After my two months of confinement I'm ready to find a good guy, date the hell outta him, and then fuck the hell out of him once we're exclusive- HA! - Miranda. Better in Hawaii. -Gwyn
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Jules and Miranda met in middle school and stayed friends through high school. Early in 2010, they both realized that their decade long marriages were splitting up at the same time and they reconnected and started the blog. Gwyn and Miranda met through work and bonded over many personal crises and a shared sick sense of humor. After confessing about the blog, Gwyn was in for the ride to share her own special experiences with boys and she and Jules became friends. Josie has been friends with Jules and Miranda basically forever and is the newest member of our blog. We are all In different places, literally and figuratively, but we always seem to rise to the occasion. And so our story goes... Email us at email@example.com.