Is it Me?

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I have noticed recently that every single person I know my age (ish) is in one of two boats. They either are in little kid survival mode or they are in a relationship and unhappy as fuck. I mean literally everyone, whether they are fully ready to admit it or not. The ones in so called happy relationships are irritated with their significant others and complain about it constantly to others, yet do nothing to change it. The ones in admittedly unhappy relationships are making serious plans to get out. It's crazy. I don't know if it's one of those things going on with the universe right now or if our generation is simply ill  equipped to manage relationships or maybe it's just the people I know?
Me? I'm cruising...living with my kid, my BFF (who is a pain right now bc he took a job he hates and is miserable but this too shall pass), and still fucking Owen every week with lots of sexting and playing in between. I don't have anyone to worry about right now but myself and Chloe and it feels really good, especially looking in on other's lives. I'm sure it's boring to read about, but again this too shall probably pass. I hope not for a long while, I'm enjoying the ease of things right now.
-Jules

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  1. Julia SnyderNovember 2, 2014 at 5:52 PM

    Your site is fantastic, I know I can come here and get a little reality. Been reading Gregory Smith's eBook How to Successfully Recover from Having Been Cheated On and it's been a realy great read. Some really practical words on the feelings and the pain and all that goes with infidelity. His site is http://www.been-cheated-on.com/, might be something someone can draw some help from.

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