tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post6970313358680111530..comments2023-09-03T04:34:29.383-04:00Comments on Dating After 40: Do Any of Us Really Know What We Are Doing?: Who Gives A Shit?Infidelity Chronicleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05644195667158141992noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-10244862536520497652010-09-18T03:33:43.159-04:002010-09-18T03:33:43.159-04:00I vote nothing is sexy about shit...hence my probl...I vote nothing is sexy about shit...hence my problems with him as of late! I will say that I'm stupid and caved today though. So much for no more contact...<br />-JulesInfidelity Chronicleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05644195667158141992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-82238996751253763632010-09-17T13:21:46.966-04:002010-09-17T13:21:46.966-04:00LOL, Miranda actually came up with the title. I li...LOL, Miranda actually came up with the title. I live by the experiment everyday, except for very rare occasions.<br />-JulesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-36921305689613138592010-09-17T10:29:54.407-04:002010-09-17T10:29:54.407-04:00Ok so I just now got the significance of the title...Ok so I just now got the significance of the title of this post and almost spit out my coffee. I think this is the perfect time for you to join our experiment......<br /><br />-GwynInfidelity Chronicleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05644195667158141992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-51524698800825214352010-09-17T04:19:36.908-04:002010-09-17T04:19:36.908-04:00PS I'll also never, ever ask for scat play...e...PS I'll also never, ever ask for scat play...ever.<br />-Jules (LMAO)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-57505337606830416772010-09-17T04:14:41.368-04:002010-09-17T04:14:41.368-04:00You're right on and I really am done. I think ...You're right on and I really am done. I think the SW in me was trying to "fix" him, which clearly is way beyond my ability. I've deleted his phone number and his IM information. There will be NO re-engaging. I caught myself, but thank you. We're glad you love it. It's good therapy for us!<br />-JulesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-87747929221492027322010-09-17T03:57:22.464-04:002010-09-17T03:57:22.464-04:00I think the key phrase is, "but it was never ...I think the key phrase is, "but it was never enough." It never will be, you never will be until he deals with the demons inside. This is just a symptom, but if he can't respect your boundaries for the long term, and that really means never asking for it again until you ask for it, then all he is doing is suppressing his feelings and anger.<br /><br />Be careful as you re-engage, don't encourage him, keep yourself safe.<br /><br />BTW - I've been a reader and follower for a while and I love your (plural) blog.Advizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.com