tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post5669007558533132736..comments2023-09-03T04:34:29.383-04:00Comments on Dating After 40: Do Any of Us Really Know What We Are Doing?: Locked and LoadedInfidelity Chronicleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05644195667158141992noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-91628925720674700242010-02-26T12:27:46.525-05:002010-02-26T12:27:46.525-05:00That's the hard part. I know a lot of people t...That's the hard part. I know a lot of people think I should have "stuck it out" for the kids for a while longer. But what kind of life is that to lead for me? And what kind of example does that set for my kids? Being brave, honest, and not being afraid to make difficult choices are all things I want for my kids. How much worse would it be for them to get to college, have seen us have this sterile unhappy marriage all these years, and then we spring a divorce on them?Mirandanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-21099086165935567502010-02-26T11:35:42.750-05:002010-02-26T11:35:42.750-05:00Oh honey- that post made me cry. Of course, I'...Oh honey- that post made me cry. Of course, I'm a little emotional today anyway...but I totally get where you are coming from. The thought of NOT being there everyday of Chloe's life terrifies me too. I mean I'm also sad that 10 years of my life with Russell is in the toilet, but mainly hating the thought of not being with Chloe every day at some point. At least I have some time before it happens...<br />-JulesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com