tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post5269897580779375273..comments2023-09-03T04:34:29.383-04:00Comments on Dating After 40: Do Any of Us Really Know What We Are Doing?: OMG I'm Having a ThrisisInfidelity Chronicleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05644195667158141992noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-65166842070291722152011-06-13T09:46:45.549-04:002011-06-13T09:46:45.549-04:00So I'm having a thrisis....as long as it ends ...So I'm having a thrisis....as long as it ends with me living in Hawaii I'm a happy girl! Finding a sexy, non-asshole guy to spend time with would be nice too :) but the way things are going I don't think that's going to be a problem! Now if only we can figure out a way to get you to HI for more than 10 days...I think your fugitive plan has some potential...<br /><br />-GwynAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-25474425077811140572011-06-10T23:37:09.298-04:002011-06-10T23:37:09.298-04:00I feel your pain. I'm totally having my own th...I feel your pain. I'm totally having my own thrisis. LMAO!<br />I still hope you live out the Hawaiian dream, but I absolutely get what you are saying about the kids. I couldn't give Chloe up to move somewhere. Hell, I'm struggling with her being gone for 45 days this summer! You should bring Duckie to HI and show him how awesome it is and convince him to move too...bwahahaha! <br />-JulesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-33221343430733750362011-06-10T21:47:13.894-04:002011-06-10T21:47:13.894-04:00Oh Miranda. I completely understand this. The pr...Oh Miranda. I completely understand this. The problem which has no answer--how to do right by your children while also pursuing your dreams. There are always compromises that must be made and a mother's instinct is to be the one who keeps compromising.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-1092794247401832812011-06-10T15:46:32.734-04:002011-06-10T15:46:32.734-04:00Good Will - It is chilling and sums it up perfectl...Good Will - It is chilling and sums it up perfectly.<br /><br />K - I wish to hell I had hindsight and could do so many things differently.<br /><br />Ethan - I would love that third option. I love creative writing but I'm just not sure how to do it and make enough money to support myself without "working for the man." If I was more disciplined I'd try to write a book. Maybe one day this blog will give me the guts for a book lol. My back up plan is to marry/find a sugar daddy who will support me so I can live creatively (or as a labor and delivery nurse). Thanks for the compliment!<br /><br />MirandaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-5407246238061632072011-06-10T15:18:22.680-04:002011-06-10T15:18:22.680-04:00I somehow doubt it, but Duckie wouldn't be int...I somehow doubt it, but Duckie wouldn't be interested in moving to Hawaii too, would he?<br /><br />I don't have any advice, as the story of my life has been getting myself out of whatever ruts I've dug myself into recently. Never give up on your dreams, but is it possible there's a third option, an even better option you could be pursuing? Something that would let you live in your home state, but make enough money to fly out to Hawaii whenever you felt the itch?<br /><br />I don't know enough about you to know what to suggest, except you're a very talented writer who communicates clearly while remaining entertaining and avoids overly-flowery prose. And it sounds like you work in a very... fascinating and emotionally-engaging workplace. Is there a market for articles or books about what you've seen through work?Ethan Lamberthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18005642810763475029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-70000526968244374202011-06-10T14:56:55.712-04:002011-06-10T14:56:55.712-04:00The grass is always greener.
I love the thrisis id...The grass is always greener.<br />I love the thrisis idea, I have been in the midst of one for. A while now. <br />Wish I could say what to do, or what I would do but the fact is I don't know any better than you. <br />I guess I can just say, I feel ya girlfriend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4688991328169502026.post-68678603424535740452011-06-10T14:21:06.729-04:002011-06-10T14:21:06.729-04:00Wow...thrisis. I hadn't heard of this term, b...Wow...thrisis. I hadn't heard of this term, but I definitely know what it means...<br /><br />"I don't want the next 30 years to look like this"<br /><br />Chilling...and perfectly describes how I feel.GoodWillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13271446703266067090noreply@blogger.com